If people wish to suicide, whatever, just dont take down others with you. Of course it is sad that she took her life in this manner but people are not rational whne they do this. The most difficult thing is watching your loved one getting worse and worse and being so helpless to do anything about it. He has left 2 lovely little girls who will grow up not even remembering their Father. Please report any comments that break our rules. Should donate blood on a regular basis and visit third world poor countries to put life in perspective. Many here seem to think that suicide is a matter of choice as is the means to commit the act. She had to have felt some pain there. The law is illogical and wrong, because it can make you to use "super glue" ,so to speak, to join each family member together 24/7 for just having peace of mind. It was found later from other CCTV camera rec. NOT everything is easy. Imagine being the train driver or his family after his shift; imagine being the poor JR staff who had to look at body parts stewn across the station; imagine being the passengers and emergency workers on the scene. Because it's far more likely she ended her life for the simpler reason most people end their life - clinical depression. To his horror, later that evening Zdenka walked through the door, doused in diesel fuel. We should be sad that a woman couldn't face anymore life and think of her family who have lost a loved one. Call the Samaritans on 116 123 or email them atjo@samaritans.org. (Audio in Hindi)NDTV is one of the leaders in the production and broadcasting of un-biased and comprehensive news and entertainment programmes in India and abroad. The eight-months pregnant woman bought herself a ticket before running across the platform and jumping in front of a non-stop intercity train which sped through the station at 115mph - instantly killing her. Many would feel they are losing face by going to a counsellor, that that's a sign of weakness. Yubaru: "But seriously here, counselling is available for those that look for it. Female carer who bit off part of a pub landlady's ear during vicious bar brawl is jailed for 14 months. TOKYO. The identity of the woman is unknown at this time. But then, I think maybe people who do this are actually going for the effect - going out with a bang, so to speak. With a train you just stand on the platform and make that sudden, crucial decision to step or jump forward without anyone having the chance to stop you (unless you WANT to be stopped). It is mental illness, do you lot get it "illness". It was an awful experience. 'She had to be admitted to hospital two weeks after we came home,' said the husband. This happens everyday, another happy day in Japan. Life is not just some inconvenience. Of course she didn't. I'm glad to see some compassion being expressed; who knows what unspoken burdens people carry around. If you've been impacted by this story, Samaritans is a confidential emotional support service for anyone in the UK and Ireland. What if she was from Fukushima or near the area? Down right scary !!!!! On January 2 2018, the couple went to the Royal Berkshire Hospital for a baby scan where they were told the infant was 'small' and may have a facial deformity. Spend some time reading up about mental illness and especially depression. If you have lived throug or witnessed a love one living through the hell of severe mental illness you would know why i say these things. Mr Hector Bradley . 1998 - 2023 Nexstar Media Inc. | All Rights Reserved. Just legalize euthanasia. The coroner said Ms Redmond was mainly carrying Melsadie during the time she was at the station, but was also seen walking hand in hand with her at various stages. No. At 6.30am that morning, at which time Melsadie was with her father Leroy Parris, Ms Redmond had checked her bank balance at a garage. why?". The identity of the woman is unknown at this time. The posts that are concerned about the effect on others (the people who were injured, the people who had to witness what happened, the families that have to cope with the aftermath, etc - No, I don't think expressing concern for those people is selfish. There are many selfish ways of committing suicide which involve pain or difficulty or 'meiwaku' for others (actually the English contains a nuance not in Japanese, ie of committing a crime, so perhaps 'ending your own life' might be a better way to phrase it than 'committing suicide'). Please show her and her family some respect. Surely "taking it out" on someone implies intent Smorkian? 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The 26-year-old woman has been identified as Sonakshi Garg. smithinjapan; I already stated about the effects her suicide has on others. Her mom went crazy, started shoutingfortunately she stopped her, grabbed her hand and took her away. An unidentified woman was injured when she jumped in front of a southbound No. I ahve seen this happen to someone, leading up to their death i got hurt so did many others. Everyone here is making very very good points - but then everyone here (I am presuming!) A bullied teen's last tweet revealed her despair from relentless teasing two days before she jumped in front of a train in New York City. We don't know anything about her life I sort of agree that we don't have to critise herBut this happened to my husband many years ago - the guy standing next to him suddently approached the train as it was about to stop and the train hit him in the head. You apparently simply cannot empathize with someone who has stopped thinking rationally. The eight-months pregnant woman bought herself a ticket before running across the platform and jumping in front of a non-stop intercity train which sped through the station at 115mph - instantly . (Thanks to Ben Orlove for the tip.) The unidentified victim was pronounced dead at the scene. This website and associated newspapers adhere to the Independent Press Standards Organisation's I know they are not in their normal state of mind, but still, if one wants to end his/her life it's better to do it quietly and away from people's eyes. Incredibly (or perhaps not so incredibly) another person did the same thing there today. She was a resident of Paharganj area of Delhi. Don't you think that's part of the problem here guys? Police said Wednesday that a woman jumped from a platform into the path of an express train in Tokyo's Katsushika Ward on Tuesday morning, killing herself and injuring four bystanders. CCTV footage from the location shows a woman jumping in front of a moving train in Ghatkopar station in Mumbai. Join the leaders of English Education for Children in Japan! Obviously the woman had problems, but if she left a family behind not only will she have shocked them deeply by killing herself, but she might be making them lose a lot more than that as well. If the person can redirect their thoughts to include others, they're more likely to realise that things aren't that bad and so less likely to actually commit suicide. That's truly sad. Seems the bottom line in some of these posts is "I don't care about you or what you do, just don't inconvenience us.". I very much doubt that she took her own life so that people would miss their flights from Narita. The act of suicide is not usually selfish becaus ethe victims mindset is beyond that. A young mother who was behind on her rent and bills gathered her three-year-old daughter in her arms and jumped in front of a train, an inquest has heard. A Gannett Company. She ended her own life. I think you completely missed the point of my 'taking it out on others' comment - I'm not referring to her killing herself, I am referring to her doing it in public, needlessly traumatizing so many others. That wouldn't be selfish, it would be malevolent. See, I bet this woman wished she could have been part of that society too, going to work, having a routine, getting on with an ordinary life, having someone to complain to, to vent, to get it out of her system. Peopel, pleased educate yourselves on mental illness and what makes a person suicidal and how they are thinking. Have it government regulated? According to investigators, her body was hit by the front car and then propelled five meters, through the glass door of a station shop that was situated on the platform. It's quite possible there were no witnesses as this is a looong platform (it's my home station) and probably there weren't so many people waiting on it at 10am. I mean why would you say that about a dead person unless you were either completely without an ounce of compassion in your heart, socially maladriot, or you knew and hated the person. I doubt she was thinking along those lines though. Her family may be pressured by the train company to pay a "fine" but they have no obligation to pay and any company should be condemned by the public for badgering a grieving family. We know her well enough to know she ended her life in the most selfish way possible - by traumatizing many people forced to witness her death, not to mention those injured. Maybe we should ask ourselves how could we do that instead of pointing the finger? I applaud the sheer ingenuity of this theory! Mr Wade said: 'The next thing she appears to do, she does when no member of the public is in her immediate vicinity. And quite frankly, here in Japan I have no idea at all how you would go about it. Data returned from the Piano 'meterActive/meterExpired' callback event. The . Published on : 24 Feb, 2023, 12:39 pm. By Jamie Phillips and Charlie Moloney For Mailonline, Published: 21:07 GMT, 15 November 2022 | Updated: 10:11 GMT, 30 November 2022. She was, probably as a result of her morbidly depressed state of mind thinking and acting selfishly, ie without thought of others. Swiftly after, the couple received a letter from the Overseas Department stating they would have to pay to transfer hospitals - which sent Zdenka's mood spiralling, assistant coroner Alison Mccormick heard. Somehow she didn't fit in to it. I know about this and how the mind will not allow rational thought, how all help means nothing and life is pointless. "I have been late 3 times this month because someone thought to throw themselves in front of a train.". Get real. Plus, in Japanese society, past and present, there is NO stigmata on suicide. To those who have lost a loved one to suicide, me included, compassion is needed. (For more information on this and other neighborhood stories, subscribe to Patch to receive daily newsletters and breaking news alerts.). Maybe J-goverment needs to import more U.S. and western Psycologist that is familar with the Japanese culture and approach from a different angle. Ms Redmond eventually came to a platform which was cordoned off to the public. 'I noticed a woman in a white jacket back away and start running across the platform.'. How absurd and heartless to say, "legalize suicide". A smile or even some expressed concern, verbal or not, can go a long ways to helping ease someone's state of mind and break down barriers; at the very least, it will provide a brief reprieve for a troubled soul. Now, I have said and will continue to berate the system here for their lack of help not only for people thinking about suicide but for mental disorders and illness in general, and the fact that there is still a lot of stigma is disgusting. If you really think about it (which you CAN do if you really try) I don't believe that she went down onto the platform, lined up the shot like a pool player, made sure there were sufficient people in the shop, then jumped infront of the train but if your just Trolling, keep up the good work. Thank You. Your lack of compassion for someone who is obviously driven to the end of her wits psychologically for reasons none of us is privy to is staggering. "It's a shame that because of her actions others were hurt, and with the Japanese being as they are, I doubt as well that others were traumatized by this woman's actions as well.". Awareness of the effects of one's actions on others yet choosing in one's own favor is a requisite of selfishness, and this woman, in all likelyhood, wasn't. On the day she had received news that some of her debt burdens had been relieved, if she had entered into a payment agreement which she did, and she was supposed to have started a new employment so her financial situation was potentially going to change.. 1) Trains are of course very common, and very frequent, and in the case of express trains very fast. There is a good deal of toing and froing.. Shortly afterwards, the mother and daughter were seen to enter Taplow station from Approach Road, where they remained at the station for around 20 minutes. Steve: you make some excellent points about the ones left behind. I think health ministry and public health departments should be more proactive to combat this epidemic of suicide, In this case I'd bet she didnt want anything more than what she got. 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